Remembering Jerry Gillespie

30 06 2009

good manJerry Gillespie passed from this life to the next life today.  He is better off.  It would be impossible to honor every friend I have who has died with a post on this blog, but Jerry is unique.  So he gets this place today.

I think anyone who knew him would agree Jerry was unique.  He, in fact, would be the first to agree.  “Flat top” as many knew him was joy-filled man with convictions from the first time I met him.  And that would be the day I interviewed for a position at Suncrest over 13 years ago.  He was on the team that interviewed me, he and Shirley came to my college graduation a few months later to represent the church I was preparing the serve.  He took me to breakfast on my first Monday in the office, July 15, 1996. 

I needed to borrow a truck for an event my first week on staff and guess who I called?  Over the years, I’ve had the chance to roast him at a surprise birthday party (I believe the enormous number of emails he was “forwarding” at the time was my topic of choice).  I’ve watched him lead in behind the scenes areas like the offering counters, I’ve been to “Young at Heart” Christmas parties he hosted, backyard parties at their home, and watched him play Santa Claus himself on more than one occasion.

What would we talk about?  Politics and Religion.  Those may be taboo for some in conversation, but not if you were with Jerry.

Funny Stories?  I have a long list of them both that he told and that happened to him.  When he would tell me one, he would often start with “Now you probably can’t use this on Sunday…”(though they were typically tame).   My favorite  one about him is still him counting one of suncrest’s first offerings and then putting it in the night depository of the WRONG bank.  (It all worked out.)

Faithful friend?  Yes, to many.  I experienced much of it, but talking to good men like John Wasem and the late Gene McKean made me appreciate Jerry deeply on that front. 

Purdue Fan.  Conservative.  Family Man.  Patriot.  Christ-follower.  And more…more than could ever be decribed here.

I got to spend about an hour at his bedside last week.  I held his hand and prayed.  We laughed a little and talked a little.  As much as he could.  I’ll miss Jerry.  And I much anticipate seeing him again.





Where is Abby?

28 06 2009

kids lincolnThis vacation has been a blast, but something struck me each time I’ve uploaded pictures for the blog.  Abby is absent (or has her head turned).  Jack will pose for a picture anytime anywhere, but Abby…not so much.  And even when you kind of force her to, she somehow manages to end up in the background (See her in this shot at the Lincoln Memorial?).

abby samuelWell, today I figured out how to get her beautiful face in a picture.  Just ask her to love a little baby and help him pose for a picture and she is all for it.  Here she is with Samuel…our friends baby who she was happy to care for every opportunity she got this week.

It’s been a great trip.  By the time you read this, we will be on the road home.  Jack has decided on these days with 11 hour drives that we are “living in the van for a day”.  I try to get him to say it loud enough for others to hear at each stop so I can see Jenny cringe.  :-)

As much fun as we have had, it’s always good t0 be home…at least until I head out for more travel on Wednesday…





Museums and more

26 06 2009

lew wallace famWe got a very cool tour of the capitol building today and Congressman Visclosky even came to greet us and take a picture with us on the Capitol steps.  The picture here is our family in front of the Lew Wallace statue in the old house chamber.  Each state gets two statues and this is one of ours from Indiana.  Jenny is actually pretty sure she is a descendant of Lew Wallace through her mom’s side of the family. 

It was actually a big day in the House of Representatives as they voted on a major climate change bill.  We got to see some of the debate in the chamber.

jack butterflyAfter a stop for shade and refreshment on the National Mall, we went to the Natural History Museum.  The kids loved the dinosaurs and everything else, but I think their highlight was the live butterfly environment we got to walk through.  Here is Jack obviously sitting next to a very large butterfly.





Friends @ the zoo

25 06 2009

jack sydneyI caught this picture of Jack and his friend Sydney today at the National Zoo.  We had a great day catching up with the Whitt Family. 

They were at Suncrest a few years ago and we became quick friends.  Working for the government has them all around the world, but we vacationed at their place in Monterrey, Mexico a couple years ago and now they are in Washington DC…so we are here.  Makes for a fun (and relatively inexpensive) vacation.  They go to Ethiopia next…who knows?

It was great catching up with them, seeing their kids grow, and driving through Washington.  Jenny and I were here about 13 years ago for a grand total of 24 hours, so it’s nice to have some time now.  Tomorrow we get a special tour of the capitol building that was arrangened through our Congressman’s office.  Should be fun!





One last post…

23 06 2009

golf 1Our family is heading out for vacation so I may or may not post for a while.  If I do, it will be family stuff, not ministry stuff. 

I’ve actually taken the whole week off so I’ll post some pics/highlights.

-I started Monday morning playing Golf with an old friend.  Jeremy Brown was a youth pastor in Dyer when I was youth pastor at Suncrest and we did a ton of stuff together.  We later found out that we share a wedding anniversary…day and year!  Pretty ironic that we played golf together on the day we both celebrated 13 years of marriage, eh?  (Jeremy is pictured looking for his ball in the creek.  We did this much of the day.)

golf 2Later Monday, our whole family was pulling weeds at the church (in section Jenny and the kids volunteered to cover).  I went inside with Jack and he put his flip-flops in the HUGE box that was overflowing from Sunday.  He actually had a dilemma because there was a part of him that really wanted to keep the flip-flops for himself.  After he tossed them in, he totally said…”I liked them, but did you know giving them makes you feel happier than keeping them?”

golf 4Monday afternoon, I went back to the golf course with Jack.  It was the first time we played this year and we had an absolute blast.  He’s very natural at it so I’m always impressed with his score.  He’s also starting to focus more (which helps a lot in golf!).  And, of course, he loved riding in the cart, using the ball washer (every hole if I let him!), walking on the island green, and sitting down for a root beer afterwards. 

golf 3After a big weekend, it was great to have a day like this. Now, we are gearing up to go see friends out of town.





Father’s Day Reflections

21 06 2009

Had a great Father’s day today on a few fronts…

…Jack and Abby…they are a gift from God in my life, each in their unique way.  Among other things, we found the ice cream truck this afternoon and they were all smiles.

…I talked to my Dad on the phone.  He means the world to me.  I was thinking about him often listening to the Father’s Day sermon today.  In today’s world, we are always very sensitive in talking about God as Father because so many people did not have a healthy experience with their own dads growing up.  Me?  I feel like I understand the nature of God as Father because I have an earthly father who embodies so many of HIS qualities.

…Finished up our ONE PRAYER message series at West Campus with a video message.  East campus uses them 70% of the time and it was good for the St. John campus to experience the dynamic.  I’ve only heard positive things!

…We had great crowds this morning!  Unfortunately that is not always the case for churches on Father’s Day.  Maybe it was because everyone came super-casual…that was fun!

…I saw so many people walking around barefoot after the service…loved that too!  We were OVERFLOWING with donations of sandals and flip-flops for the AFRICA container.  They will be so grateful!

…We took my father-in-law out for lunch as they finished their visit to town.  It was a great weekend and Jenny is a champ as a hostess.  Had a wide variety of people in town/at our house/that we were feeding and she made it run so smoothly.  She’s the one who should have received the special treatment today!





Facebook at the cubs game

20 06 2009

I was at the cubs game today.  A few random reflections…

1.  The Indians stink except for Cliff Lee.  He pitched 7 great innings and then the cubs came back from a 7-2 deficit to win in extra innnings.

2.  I went with about 30 people from Jenny’s family, but the favorite parts were just talking about the game with my 5 year old son (pictured).

3.  It was through facebook on wednesday that I found an Indians cap to wear to the game.

4.  During the game today, I was updating my status on facebook a few times and had 17 replies from friends.  Fun way to stay connected.

5.  Yesterday someone texted me the audio version of “Go cubs Go” after they pulled it out late against the white sox.  What will I ever do with that?

6.  Trying to focus in on some family time here in the next few days.  We have all of Jenny’s family at our house for a cookout tomorrow.  Should be a blast.





Revelation Revealed

18 06 2009

Revelation's Rhapsody: Listening to the Lyrics of the Lamb: How to Read the Book of RevelationNext Saturday June 27th, we have an incredible opportunity at Suncrest.

A scholar and down-to-earth teacher is coming to do a day-long seminar called “Revelation Revealed.  If you have ever had questions or curiosities about this unique book of the Bible, Revelation Revealed will help you to piece together the imagery of the Book of Revelation.

Dr. Robert Lowery was one of my favorite professors at Lincoln Christian Seminary and has his Ph.D. from Aberdeen University.  Revelation and End Times Study is an area of expertise for him and he has now published two books on the Subject.  Here are the details for the event:

Where:  Suncrest (West Campus in St. John)

When:  9am-4pm, Saturday, June 27.

Cost:  $10/person include materials and a boxed lunch

If you are at Suncrest, make sure you sign up this weekend.  If you are another pastor reading this, you are welcome to send people.  Contact bobby.jackson@suncrest.org





How to Listen to a Sermon

17 06 2009

christian standardOne hundred times more people will hear a sermon this week than preach one.  So why are there thousands of articles, books, and classes on how to preach a message, but virtually none on how to listen to one?

It’s because most people think listening just comes naturally. But that’s not what Jesus thought.

Jesus said to “consider carefully how you listen” (Luke 8:18). The state and fate of your life depends on how you listen. Teachers are responsible for teaching well, but you are responsible for listening well. Jesus wants you to listen in a way that will change your life.

That’s how this interesting magazine article by Brian Mavis in Christian Standard begins.  Click here to Read the rest of it.

It was a great read for me as I actually listen to a lot more sermons than I preach (thank you, podcasts).





Another reason to root for the Cardinals (or White Sox)

15 06 2009

I have to credit my friend Dave Ferguson for this one.  He’s a white sox fan who posted it on his blog.  As soon as I saw it, I knew it was something to be shared!  :-)

Click here for the 1 minute video.